Aile i\u00e7inde<\/p>\n
\u201cCan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d muhakkak. Lakin ehvendir.<\/p>\n
\u201cKavga\u201d ise muhtemeldir. Ama travmatiktir<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Sorunun sebebi,<\/p>\n
Genelde \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slard\u0131r<\/p>\n
Yani e\u015flerin d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki unsurlar ki<\/p>\n
Bunlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 grupta toplamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
1)\u00c7oluk \u00e7ocukgiller\u00a0 – 2) Akrabagiller \u2013 3) Arkada\u015fgiller<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Bu guruplarla ili\u015fkilerin s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/p>\n
\u0130kili ili\u015fkiye burunlar\u0131n\u0131 sokma oranlar\u0131<\/p>\n
Ve de ikilinin olanlara kendini kapt\u0131rma h\u0131z\u0131<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fananlar\u0131n \u201ccan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d boyutunda kalmas\u0131na<\/p>\n
Ya da Travmatik bir hal almas\u0131na sebep olur.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Sorunun can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutunda kalmas\u0131<\/p>\n
E\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkinin renklenmesi demektir<\/p>\n
Ki bu iyi bir \u015feydir.<\/p>\n
Yuvay\u0131 monotonluktan kurtar\u0131r<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Yaln\u0131z bunun i\u00e7in taraflar\u0131n,<\/p>\n
Ya a\u00e7\u0131k, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc, samimi<\/p>\n
Ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 olmas\u0131<\/p>\n
Ya da;<\/p>\n
Duymazdan gelmek<\/p>\n
G\u00f6remiyor olmak<\/p>\n
Dillendirmemek<\/p>\n
Vas\u0131flar\u0131na sahip olmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Bu vas\u0131flar yoksa<\/p>\n
O ili\u015fki, can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutundan<\/p>\n
Travmatik boyuta ula\u015f\u0131r ki<\/p>\n
Bu boyut, ya cinnetle<\/p>\n
Ya da mahkemeyle biter.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Bu y\u00fczden temennimiz<\/p>\n
\u0130li\u015fkilerdeki, aksakl\u0131klar\u0131n, anlams\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n<\/p>\n
\u0130ncir \u00e7ekirde\u011fini doldurmayacak konulara,<\/p>\n
Kald\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131 anlamlar y\u00fcklemenin olmamas\u0131<\/p>\n
\u0130li\u015fkilerin can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutunda devam etmesi<\/p>\n
Asla Travmatik boyuta ula\u015fmamas\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
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Aile i\u00e7inde \u201cCan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d muhakkak. Lakin ehvendir. \u201cKavga\u201d ise muhtemeldir. Ama travmatiktir Sorunun sebebi, Genelde \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slard\u0131r Yani e\u015flerin d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki unsurlar ki Bunlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 grupta toplamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. 1)\u00c7oluk \u00e7ocukgiller\u00a0 – 2) Akrabagiller \u2013 3) Arkada\u015fgiller Bu guruplarla ili\u015fkilerin s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0130kili ili\u015fkiye burunlar\u0131n\u0131 sokma oranlar\u0131 Ve de ikilinin olanlara kendini kapt\u0131rma h\u0131z\u0131 Ya\u015fananlar\u0131n \u201ccan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d boyutunda kalmas\u0131na Ya da Travmatik bir hal almas\u0131na sebep olur. Sorunun can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutunda kalmas\u0131 E\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkinin renklenmesi demektir Ki bu iyi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3041","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annem","wpcat-3-id"],"views":549,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3041","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3041"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3043,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3041\/revisions\/3043"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}