Bir al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k vard\u0131 eski bayramlarda<\/p>\n
Nelerin ne zaman yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 belliydi<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan\u0131 bo\u015flukta b\u0131rakan bir belirsizlik yoktu<\/p>\n
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Misal bayram, ramazan bayram\u0131 ise<\/p>\n
Ev ahalisi sabah namaz\u0131 vaktinde kalkar<\/p>\n
Erkek tak\u0131m\u0131 bayram namaz\u0131 i\u00e7in haz\u0131rl\u0131k yaparken<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131n k\u0131sm\u0131 da bayram yemeklerinin<\/p>\n
R\u00f6tu\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tamamlamak i\u00e7in mutfa\u011fa dolu\u015furdu<\/p>\n
Her iki kesim bayram namaz\u0131 sonras\u0131<\/p>\n
Bir noktada bulu\u015fur<\/p>\n
Ve kabir ziyaretine ba\u015flan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Bu b\u00f6yleydi ve b\u00f6yle olan hik\u00e2yede<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan\u0131 karamsarl\u0131\u011fa iten bir bo\u015fluk yoktur<\/p>\n
Kimin ne yapaca\u011f\u0131, ne zaman yapaca\u011f\u0131 bellidir<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Her bayram sabah\u0131 bizim evde<\/p>\n
Bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015fan\u0131rd\u0131<\/p>\n
S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131, bayram namaz\u0131na<\/p>\n
Gidilip gidilmemesi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131yd\u0131<\/p>\n
En az\u0131ndan benim i\u00e7in bu b\u00f6yleydi<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Ben, vakit namaz\u0131 k\u0131lmayan bir adama<\/p>\n
Cuma namaz\u0131 k\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in<\/p>\n
Aile bask\u0131s\u0131 yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 anlar\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Cuma namaz\u0131n\u0131n bir olmazsa olmaz\u0131 var<\/p>\n
Ama Cuma namaz\u0131nda yap\u0131lmayan \u0131srar\u0131n<\/p>\n
Bayram namaz\u0131nda \u0131srarla yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131<\/p>\n
Hi\u00e7 anlayamazd\u0131m.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Bayram namaz\u0131 her birey i\u00e7in<\/p>\n
Bir dini zorunluluk de\u011fildi<\/p>\n
Aile i\u00e7inde birinin eda etmesi ile<\/p>\n
Sorumlulu\u011fun kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir namazd\u0131<\/p>\n
Israr nedendi?<\/p>\n
Anlayamazd\u0131m<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi anl\u0131yorum ki<\/p>\n
Israr\u0131n sebebi dini kayg\u0131lar de\u011fil<\/p>\n
K\u00fclt\u00fcrel al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klarm\u0131\u015f ve<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc kaybeden her de\u011ferin<\/p>\n
Kaybolmaya mahk\u00fbmdur oldu\u011fu biliniyormu\u015f<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Ve biz \u015fimdi<\/p>\n
De\u011ferlerimizi K\u00fclt\u00fcrs\u00fcz ya\u015f\u0131yoruz<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
\u201cNerede eski bayramlar\u201d geyi\u011finin anlam\u0131 bu<\/p>\n
Eskiyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcremiyoruz<\/p>\n
Yeniyi bilemiyor ve ya olu\u015fturam\u0131yoruz<\/p>\n
Haliyle eski ile olmayan yeni aras\u0131nda, Arasat\u2019ta kal\u0131yoruz<\/p>\n
Bir ge\u00e7i\u015f d\u00f6nemi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yoruz<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 karartm\u0131yorsak bile esmerle\u015ftiriyoruz<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Ortak de\u011ferleri \u2018pald\u0131r k\u00fcld\u00fcr \u2018ya\u015f\u0131yoruz<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm asl\u0131nda basit;<\/p>\n
Biraz ki\u015fisel<\/p>\n
Biraz kurumsal<\/p>\n
Biraz toplumsal \u00e7abayla<\/p>\n
Ama sa\u011fduyu, \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fc, illaki ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcyle olacak bir \u015fey<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Lakin sa\u011fduyuyu kim kaybetti biz bulal\u0131m<\/p>\n
\u00d6ng\u00f6r\u00fcde neyin nesiymi\u015f!<\/p>\n
Ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc m\u00fc?<\/p>\n
Oda onuncu k\u00f6y\u00fcn sakinimi ki!<\/p>\n
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Bir al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k vard\u0131 eski bayramlarda Nelerin ne zaman yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 belliydi \u0130nsan\u0131 bo\u015flukta b\u0131rakan bir belirsizlik yoktu Misal bayram, ramazan bayram\u0131 ise Ev ahalisi sabah namaz\u0131 vaktinde kalkar Erkek tak\u0131m\u0131 bayram namaz\u0131 i\u00e7in haz\u0131rl\u0131k yaparken Kad\u0131n k\u0131sm\u0131 da bayram yemeklerinin R\u00f6tu\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tamamlamak i\u00e7in mutfa\u011fa dolu\u015furdu Her iki kesim bayram namaz\u0131 sonras\u0131 Bir noktada bulu\u015fur Ve kabir ziyaretine ba\u015flan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 Bu b\u00f6yleydi ve b\u00f6yle olan hik\u00e2yede \u0130nsan\u0131 karamsarl\u0131\u011fa iten bir bo\u015fluk yoktur Kimin ne yapaca\u011f\u0131, ne zaman yapaca\u011f\u0131 bellidir Her…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annem","wpcat-3-id"],"views":501,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3018"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3019,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018\/revisions\/3019"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}