{"id":2997,"date":"2017-06-20T13:16:02","date_gmt":"2017-06-20T13:16:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/?p=2997"},"modified":"2017-06-20T13:16:02","modified_gmt":"2017-06-20T13:16:02","slug":"can-sikintisindan-travmaya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/?p=2997","title":{"rendered":"CAN SIKINTISINDAN TRAVMAYA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aile i\u00e7inde<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d muhakkak. Lakin ehvendir.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKavga\u201d ise muhtemeldir. Ama travmatiktir<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sorunun sebebi,<\/p>\n<p>Genelde \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slard\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>Yani e\u015flerin d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki unsurlar ki<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 grupta toplamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>1)\u00c7oluk \u00e7ocukgiller\u00a0 &#8211; 2) Akrabagiller \u2013 3) Arkada\u015fgiller<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu guruplarla ili\u015fkilerin s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kili ili\u015fkiye burunlar\u0131n\u0131 sokma oranlar\u0131<\/p>\n<p>Ve de ikilinin olanlara kendini kapt\u0131rma h\u0131z\u0131<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fananlar\u0131n \u201ccan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d boyutunda kalmas\u0131na<\/p>\n<p>Ya da Travmatik bir hal almas\u0131na sebep olur.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sorunun can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutunda kalmas\u0131<\/p>\n<p>E\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkinin renklenmesi demektir<\/p>\n<p>Ki bu iyi bir \u015feydir.<\/p>\n<p>Yuvay\u0131 monotonluktan kurtar\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yaln\u0131z bunun i\u00e7in taraflar\u0131n,<\/p>\n<p>A\u00e7\u0131k, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc, samimi<\/p>\n<p>Ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekir<\/p>\n<p>Ya da;<\/p>\n<p>Duymazdan gelmek<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6remiyor olmak<\/p>\n<p>Dillendirmemek<\/p>\n<p>Vas\u0131flar\u0131na sahip olmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu vas\u0131flar yoksa<\/p>\n<p>O ili\u015fki, can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutundan<\/p>\n<p>Travmatik boyuta ula\u015f\u0131r ki<\/p>\n<p>Bu boyut, ya cinnet noktas\u0131nda<\/p>\n<p>Ya da adalet saray\u0131nda biter.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden temennimiz<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerdeki, aksakl\u0131klar\u0131n, anlams\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ncir \u00e7ekirde\u011fini doldurmayacak konulara,<\/p>\n<p>Kald\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131 anlamlar y\u00fcklemenin olmamas\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerin can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutunda devam etmesidir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aile i\u00e7inde \u201cCan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d muhakkak. Lakin ehvendir. \u201cKavga\u201d ise muhtemeldir. Ama travmatiktir &nbsp; Sorunun sebebi, Genelde \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slard\u0131r Yani e\u015flerin d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki unsurlar ki Bunlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 grupta toplamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. 1)\u00c7oluk \u00e7ocukgiller\u00a0 &#8211; 2) Akrabagiller \u2013 3) Arkada\u015fgiller &nbsp; Bu guruplarla ili\u015fkilerin s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0130kili ili\u015fkiye burunlar\u0131n\u0131 sokma oranlar\u0131 Ve de ikilinin olanlara kendini kapt\u0131rma h\u0131z\u0131 Ya\u015fananlar\u0131n \u201ccan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\u201d boyutunda kalmas\u0131na Ya da Travmatik bir hal almas\u0131na sebep olur. &nbsp; Sorunun can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 boyutunda kalmas\u0131 E\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkinin renklenmesi demektir Ki bu iyi&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2997","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annem","wpcat-3-id"],"views":528,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2997","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2997"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2997\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2998,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2997\/revisions\/2998"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2997"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2997"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2997"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}