Bir vesileyle bir konunun
\nUmuma a\u00e7\u0131k \u015fekilde
\nDillendirilmesi hususu h\u00e2s\u0131l oldu (mealini sonra veririm)<\/p>\n
Aile i\u00e7i ili\u015fkilerde
\nDostluklar\u0131n ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131n seyri
\n-Haydi, dostluklar\u0131n diyelim de
\n\u201cD\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k\u201d kelimesini
\n\u201cK\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u201d olarak yumu\u015fatal\u0131m-
\nDi\u011fer insani ili\u015fkilerden farkl\u0131 i\u015fliyor<\/p>\n
K\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z ne kadar derin olsa da
\nK\u0131rg\u0131n oldu\u011funuz \u0130nsanlarla
\nBir yerde bir \u015fekilde
\nKar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmak durumundas\u0131n\u0131z
\nBu hal insan\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya sokuyor
\nYetmiyor, ili\u015fkilerin \u201ckalitesini\u201d bozuyor
\nSonu\u00e7 maalesef bu<\/p>\n
Bu ahval ve \u015ferait i\u00e7inde
\nAile ili\u015fkilerinde
\nHep \u201che\u201d ci mi olal\u0131m?
\nTav\u0131r komayal\u0131m m\u0131?
\nK\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ifade etmeyelim mi?
\nYani \u201c\u00fc\u00e7 maymunu mu oynayal\u0131m\u201d?
\nPolyannac\u0131l\u0131km\u0131 yapal\u0131m?<\/p>\n
Tabi bu do\u011fru de\u011fil
\nM\u00fcmk\u00fcn de de\u011fil
\n\u0130nsan\u0131z etten ve kemikteniz<\/p>\n
Sevgimizi sevincimizi g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz gibi
\n\u00d6fkemizi de k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da
\nYa\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z ya\u015famal\u0131y\u0131z da
\nDo\u011fal olan\u0131 bu<\/p>\n
Lakin bu “\u00f6fke seanslar\u0131n\u0131”
\nAile mahremiyeti i\u00e7erisinde
\nBiraz \u201ctahamm\u00fcl\u201d s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 geni\u015fleterek
\nBelki \u201cho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc\u201d biraz abartarak
\nK\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 \u201ckontrol edilebilir\u201d
\nSeviyede tutmak gerekir<\/p>\n
Bunun i\u00e7in;<\/p>\n
1-Her fert her duydu\u011funu ya da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc
\nYa da g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bir \u015fekilde ya da her \u015fekilde
\nBa\u015fkalar\u0131na yans\u0131tma ihtiyac\u0131nda olmamal\u0131<\/p>\n
2-Hi\u00e7bir fert di\u011fer bir ferdin
\n\u201cK\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n takip\u00e7isi\u201d olmamal\u0131
\nAma \u201csevgisinin yay\u0131c\u0131s\u0131\u201d olmal\u0131, olabilmeli<\/p>\n
3-K\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar, asla \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slar kanal\u0131yla
\n\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcmlendirilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmamal\u0131
\n\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slar devreye sokulmadan
\n \u0130kili ili\u015fkiler kurabilmenin yollar\u0131
\nHep a\u00e7\u0131k tutulmal\u0131<\/p>\n
4-B\u00fcy\u00fckler \u201c\u00e7ocuklarla \u00e7ocuk\u201d olabilmenin
\nYolunu aramal\u0131, ama \u00e7ocuklar
\nAsla\u201d b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle b\u00fcy\u00fck olman\u0131n\u201d
\nDerdine d\u00fc\u015fmemelidir<\/p>\n
Bunlara dikkat edilirse
\n \u201ckontrol edilebilir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k\u201d
\nSa\u011flanm\u0131\u015f olur diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum<\/p>\n
Aile i\u00e7i dedim de
\nToplum dedi\u011fimiz \u015feyde
\nEn \u201cgeni\u015f aile\u201d de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n
O halde; \u201ckontrol edilebilir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u201d
\nToplumsal bar\u0131\u015f\u0131nda anahtar\u0131 say\u0131lmaz m\u0131?<\/p>\n
Yani!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bir vesileyle bir konunun Umuma a\u00e7\u0131k \u015fekilde Dillendirilmesi hususu h\u00e2s\u0131l oldu (mealini sonra veririm) Aile i\u00e7i ili\u015fkilerde Dostluklar\u0131n ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131n seyri -Haydi, dostluklar\u0131n diyelim de \u201cD\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k\u201d kelimesini \u201cK\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u201d olarak yumu\u015fatal\u0131m- Di\u011fer insani ili\u015fkilerden farkl\u0131 i\u015fliyor K\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z ne kadar derin olsa da K\u0131rg\u0131n oldu\u011funuz \u0130nsanlarla Bir yerde bir \u015fekilde Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmak durumundas\u0131n\u0131z Bu hal insan\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya sokuyor Yetmiyor, ili\u015fkilerin \u201ckalitesini\u201d bozuyor Sonu\u00e7 maalesef bu Bu ahval ve \u015ferait i\u00e7inde Aile ili\u015fkilerinde Hep \u201che\u201d ci mi olal\u0131m? Tav\u0131r komayal\u0131m m\u0131? K\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ifade etmeyelim…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2440","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yt","wpcat-6-id"],"views":926,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2440","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2440"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2440\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2441,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2440\/revisions\/2441"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2440"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2440"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2440"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}