{"id":1625,"date":"2015-02-13T10:20:59","date_gmt":"2015-02-13T10:20:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/?p=1625"},"modified":"2015-02-13T10:20:59","modified_gmt":"2015-02-13T10:20:59","slug":"ah-anne-2014","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/?p=1625","title":{"rendered":"AH ANNE-2014"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130LAH\u0130 BO\u015eANMA<\/p>\n<p>\u201cD\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcn Melahat Uygun\u2019un bizden ayr\u0131l\u0131p<\/p>\n<p>Sana do\u011fru yola \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 \u00fczerine<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar\u0131 yaz\u0131yorum anne\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6l\u00fcm e\u015flerin do\u011fal bo\u015fanma \u015feklidir<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131 \u201cevlilik\u201d \u00fczerine kuran toplumlar<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBo\u015fanmalar\u0131\u201d do\u011fal da olsa<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlu olarak ya\u015farlar<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mal\u0131n m\u00fclk\u00fcn payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131ndan<\/p>\n<p>Aile bireylerinin<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerini nas\u0131l devam ettireceklerine<\/p>\n<p>Hayatta kalan e\u015fin medeni durumunu<\/p>\n<p>Ne \u015fekilde s\u00fcrd\u00fcrece\u011fine kadar<\/p>\n<p>Uzanan sorunlar<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ster istemez hayat\u0131n\u201d kalitesini\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130slamiyet Hayat\u0131<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn do\u011fall\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile kabul etmesine ra\u011fmen<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n Bu durumu<\/p>\n<p>Eziyet haline getirmesinin<\/p>\n<p>Sebebi ne<\/p>\n<p>Ve daha \u00f6nemlisi<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc ne<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kalan e\u015fin<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lahi bir \u015fekilde bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l s\u00fcrd\u00fcrece\u011fi<\/p>\n<p>Ne kadar s\u00fcre sonra<\/p>\n<p>Normal hayata d\u00f6nece\u011fi<\/p>\n<p>Aile bireylerinin<\/p>\n<p>Bir biri ile olan ili\u015fkisinin<\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131<\/p>\n<p>Konuya muhatap olan e\u015fin<\/p>\n<p>Fiziki ve psikolojik durumuna<\/p>\n<p>Ve ki\u015finin<\/p>\n<p>E\u015fler hayattayken g\u00f6sterdikleri<\/p>\n<p>Performansa g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Buna ra\u011fmen<\/p>\n<p>Hayatta kalanlar\u0131n<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHayat kalitesinin\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Korunmas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan<\/p>\n<p>Yap\u0131lacak her t\u00fcrl\u00fc de\u011ferlendirmede;<\/p>\n<p>Hakk\u0131n rahmetine kavu\u015fmu\u015f olan faninin<\/p>\n<p>Devam eden her t\u00fcrl\u00fc<\/p>\n<p>Maddi ve manevi<\/p>\n<p>Hukukunun korunmas\u0131na<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zel bir \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterilmelidir<\/p>\n<p>Hat\u0131ras\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyulmal\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bunun sa\u011flanmas\u0131n\u0131n yolunun da<\/p>\n<p>Hayatta kalanlar\u0131n birbiriyle<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkisinde Sayg\u0131n\u0131n<\/p>\n<p>Temel al\u0131n\u0131p al\u0131nmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na<\/p>\n<p>Sevgiyle bu temelin<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7lendirilip g\u00fc\u00e7lendirilmedi\u011fine<\/p>\n<p>Zarafet ve nezaketle bu g\u00fcc\u00fcn<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcslenip s\u00fcslenmedi\u011fine<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu form\u00fcl tam uygulanam\u0131yorsa<\/p>\n<p>Sayg\u0131 her hal ve \u015fartta esas olmal\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lla ki Sevgi aranmamal\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sevgi yok diye<\/p>\n<p>Sevgi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in<\/p>\n<p>Ben sayg\u0131m\u0131 da kaybettim denmemeli<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerin bir \u201csorunlar yuma\u011f\u0131na\u201d<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcp<\/p>\n<p>Aile mahremiyetini<\/p>\n<p>Tarumar edecek<\/p>\n<p>Davran\u0131\u015flara y\u00f6nelinmemelidir<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu a\u00e7maza d\u00fc\u015fmemenin yolu da<\/p>\n<p>Her \u015feye ra\u011fmen<\/p>\n<p>Her \u015feyle beraber<\/p>\n<p>Aile bireylerinin<\/p>\n<p>Birbirlerine sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131<\/p>\n<p>Kaybetmemesidir<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki<\/p>\n<p>Aileyi bir arada tutan<\/p>\n<p>Ailenin ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7inde olmas\u0131 beklenen<\/p>\n<p>Sevgi<\/p>\n<p>Biraz so\u011fukluk<\/p>\n<p>Biraz mesafe<\/p>\n<p>Belki istenmese de \u00f6fke<\/p>\n<p>Ve hi\u00e7 arzu edilmeyen<\/p>\n<p>Ama hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde var olan<\/p>\n<p>Nefret olsa da<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar<\/p>\n<p>Aileyi aile yapar.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yeter ki sayg\u0131 kaybedilmesin<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130LAH\u0130 BO\u015eANMA \u201cD\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcn Melahat Uygun\u2019un bizden ayr\u0131l\u0131p Sana do\u011fru yola \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 \u00fczerine Bunlar\u0131 yaz\u0131yorum anne\u201d &nbsp; \u00d6l\u00fcm e\u015flerin do\u011fal bo\u015fanma \u015feklidir &nbsp; Hayat\u0131 \u201cevlilik\u201d \u00fczerine kuran toplumlar \u201cBo\u015fanmalar\u0131\u201d do\u011fal da olsa Sorunlu olarak ya\u015farlar &nbsp; Mal\u0131n m\u00fclk\u00fcn payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131ndan Aile bireylerinin \u0130li\u015fkilerini nas\u0131l devam ettireceklerine Hayatta kalan e\u015fin medeni durumunu Ne \u015fekilde s\u00fcrd\u00fcrece\u011fine kadar Uzanan sorunlar \u0130ster istemez hayat\u0131n\u201d kalitesini\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr &nbsp; \u0130slamiyet Hayat\u0131 B\u00fct\u00fcn do\u011fall\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile kabul etmesine ra\u011fmen M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n Bu durumu Eziyet haline getirmesinin Sebebi ne Ve daha \u00f6nemlisi&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1625","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-annem","wpcat-3-id"],"views":971,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1625","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1625"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1625\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1626,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1625\/revisions\/1626"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1625"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1625"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cevikce.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1625"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}